Talking to an Asian woman is fun, but there are certain topics that you must avoid to prevent putting her off. Remember that women who were born in Asia grew up in a conservative culture so there may be topics that they consider to be too personal or still taboo. The list of these topics can be comprehensive, but just to give you an idea, here are a few of them:

Religion

Asia is a melting pot of different religious beliefs. If you’re not open to a lady being in a religion other than yours, it’s best to stay away from the topic even if you’re curious about her religion’s practices. If you, however, do have an open mind, go ahead and ask about general information on her religion. Just make sure to avoid arguing and challenging ideas of the religion because it’ll be counterproductive for you.

 

Intimacy and Past Relationships

“Have you been intimate with a gentleman before? And, “how many boyfriends have you met online?” are just some of the questions that you DO NOT NEED TO ASK (all caps for emphasis). These are just downright rude even if your intention was innocent. It’ll make an Asian woman think that you’re shaming her or that you’re intentionally making her feel bad. Unfortunately, that’s how being conservative is. Topics of intimacy and past relationships are something that are secret and taboo to discuss out in the open.

She may be comfortable sharing this info with her girlfriends, but not to a complete stranger who she has just met online. Common, you know better than asking these questions.

 

Blowing Your Own Horn to an Asian Woman

 

Did you know that foreign men have a reputation for being arrogant? At first, an Asian woman will assume that you are so. You do not want to confirm her beliefs, rather you want to show her that you’re the opposite. Convincing her that you’re the one and that you’re so great is not going to help you either. Asian women do not like a man who is too full of himself.

 

Divorce Details

So remember when it was mentioned that intimacy and past relationships don’t need to be discussed? That goes for you too. If you’ve been divorced, make sure that you do not discuss the details (as well as the ugly details) of our divorce to an Asian woman. What for? Right? It’s just not something that you discuss to avoid making the other party uncomfortable.

 

Negative Experiences with Online Dating

Here’s another no-no that you should be keeping to yourself. Venting out bad experiences with online dating is a good way to let some steam off, but if you share your bad experiences with an Asian woman who is a potential date, it is a BIG TURN OFF. Why? For the sole reason that it is negative. Save this story for when you have therapy. You’re online dating to find someone who’s a good match for you. You’re not online dating to unload your frustrations. Remember that.

 

Topics, Topics, Topics

There are a lot more topics that you should avoid. Basically, the key is to remember that the questions you ask need to be focused on getting to know a person. These issues should not pry into their personal life, but they are meant to know the person better.