So you’ve been browsing profiles of beautiful women on an online dating website and just saw someone you really liked. You are mesmerized by her beauty and you definitely want access to her but the website needs for you to sign up first. Would you do it? Would you sign up to an unfamiliar site just because you saw the picture of, possibly, the most beautiful Asian woman you’ve ever seen? Your probable answer would be “YES”. It’s all done for love after all, right? We agree! However, for the sake of protecting yourself, you have to make sure that it is one of the best international dating sites around.
The ugly truth is that, whether you like it or not, there will always be an online dating website that you cannot trust. It’s sad but a lot of people have already been misled in some way, breaking their heart in the process. This happens when you don’t know the best dating website from the worst.
There are a lot of angry reviews, sad stories and heartbreaking comments of how these sites have misguided their subscribers so the first thing is to make sure that your chosen dating site has a clear anti-scam policy. Any reputable website will have a clear anti-scam policy which offers advice to stay safe and clearly states the signs of a scam.
To futher help you stay safe when online dating, we’ve short-listed some red flags that you need to watch out for:
The number one red flag for you to know if you’re a member of a not-so-good dating website is this: women asking you to wire them some cash. Restrain yourself no matter how plausible their story is. There will always be a sob story involved, so you better run if it sounds like only you can solve their life emergency.
Inconsistent and Inconsistent
If you’ve already engaged in a chat conversation and you feel like there have been a few changes with how your online date responds – difference in the language, sentence construction, etc. – chances are you’re heading into a trap. Walking away would be the best thing to do.
Your Gut is Screaming NO
Usually, you’ll be able to tell if you’re a member of a legitimate dating site or not by trusting your gut. If you have a feeling that something is not right or it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Just think carefully about every action that you take and don’t give out any information which could hurt you later.