Have you made up your mind about dating Asian girls? Well, don’t make any decisions yet because we will help you do that. Across the vastness of the internet kingdom, we’ve searched for stories of foreign men and Asian women, their difficulties during the relationship and what they did to overcome it. They were all such great stories, but it wasn’t the stories that we were after. We wanted to find out what things foreign men should consider before dating Asian women. We found out a lot and, to make things easier for you, we’ve compiled all the information we gathered and turned them into 5 questions you should ask before dating Asian girls:
Why do I want to date Asian girls?
Knowing the reason to this question will put things in perspective. Why have you decided to date Asian women? What is it about them that makes them so attractive to you? Is it because their culture is fascinating? Is it because these women make great mothers in the future? Figure this out yourself so you be aligned with the right mindset.
Am I looking for something serious or something temporary?
The next thing you should ask is this. Will you be willing to spend the rest of your life with an Asian woman? Although the success of relationships can never be predicted, you have to ask at least yourself the level of commitment you have and if you’re ready for a serious long-term relationship. Asking this question will make you examine your status in life as well as your goals.
Am I ready for the challenges brought about by cultural differences?
Having a girlfriend who’s from another culture won’t be a walk in the park. You’d have to consider difficulties like distance, language barriers, customs and traditions, familial values and so forth. There’s a lot to think about when discussions about cultural differences arise. Know that this is not for discouragement but for encouragement for you to see the truth which is: all relationships will have their troubles.
Do I have enough patience to deal with everything?
The next best question to ask yourself is if you have enough patience. This deals more with your emotional maturity. Are you mature enough to handle difficult situations during the relationship? As the man, will you be driven enough to make an effort when things go sour? It is these questions that will save you a whole bunch of heartache. As mentioned earlier, every relationship will have its bad moments. You would need to know how capable you are of fixing these bad moments and turning them into good ones – not an easy feat.
How far am I willing to go?
The most likely scenario of your relationship will be one where you’re in your own country and she’s in hers. If this is indeed the case, how far will, mostly, you go to keep the relationship going? Are you going visit her? How often? Are you going to apply for a visa for her? It is these questions that will help open your eyes to the truth and sincerity of the relationship.
Ask Yourself These Because…
It’s, of course, alright if you don’t go through this stage of asking yourself questions to see if you’re ready or if you aren’t.These questions, however, will save you from wasting your time and wasting someone elses. Even if you aren’t looking for anything serious, it’s ideal that you still ask yourself these to know which direction you’re headed in the area of love.