We all experience dates that do not go as well as we planned. We hoped that there would be chemistry, but there is none. There is, actually, nothing you can do about mishaps that happen during a first date. In most cases, you won’t have control over it so it’s just fair to give another chance to bad first dates.
It’s Not The End Of The World, Give A Second Chance To Bad First Dates
You may think that giving a second chance to bad first dates is no longer necessary. Why would you, right? You already had a bad time the first time around. Why would the next date be any better? It is most likely going to be more disastrous than the first, right? Consider the following reasons:
1. It was an off night.
There will be nights where the entire date just feels off. You are not giving your best and so is your date. On top of that, everything around you seems to be going wrong – like the food, the waiter spilling the glass of wine on you, and so on.
2. Stress got the better of your date.
Everyone experiences stress and your date is no exception. During the time of your meeting, your date may be undergoing something which caused him or her to act differently than how they usually are. Your date deserves to be seen during his or her best day. You would want the same if you were the one undergoing a stressful situation.
3. You or your date might have been feeling under the weather.
Sometimes, you’re just not up for a date but you can no longer do anything because everything has been planned in advance. It happens and this is something out of your control.
Rethink Giving A Chance To Bad First Dates
Be more open-minded when it comes to giving a second chance to bad first dates. You never know what might happen. You may have a good time, or the person you thought was terrible would be the person you fall for. There are more dating tips on the blog.