When you are in the dating world, you have to remember this: some of the most successful daters are also socially successful people. If your social skills are not where you would want them to be, you have to do something about it today.
Lessons You Can Learn From Socially Successful People
If you’re naturally an introvert, you might have trouble approaching people and interacting with them. It’s going to be a problem, then, because dating entails communicating with people to get to know them much better. How do socially successful people do it?
People are more likely to connect with you if you share positive news, experts say. One way you can do this is by telling someone good news about your life. For example, you just received your promotion. That’s something to be celebrated.
Avoid Negative People
When you share positive news, you will get two reactions – positive and negative ones. Don’t be so down when you receive negative comments because it’s like seeing the results of a test. Those who do not wish you well should be taken off of your friends or potential partners list.
Be A Good Decoder
Socially successful people are good decoders. They know how to read people’s actions. Observe how people behave around you or when you talk. If the person is acting strange, then it is likely that he or she is not interested in what you have to say.
Stop People Pleasing
It’s not about them. It’s about what you want. When you are in a relationship, of course, you have to compromise. But, while you are dating, you have to be transparent with who you want to meet and who you are as a person.
It’s going to take some time to adapt these habits that socially successful people have, but it’s going to be worth it. Be patient with yourself and try to have a more positive outlook when it comes to dating. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.