As you are dating, it’s inevitable for you not to have a broken heart. It’s natural because not everyone will have sincere intentions towards us, and not everything will work out in the end. But, you have to know that learning to trust again is possible when you have found the right person.
Learning To Trust Again Is A Process
Understand that you cannot learn to trust again overnight. It’s going to be a process. However long your process takes will be up to you. Of course, your healing will depend on how badly you were wounded. Nonetheless, you can and you will trust again. Just remember these tips:
1. Know The Difference Between Fear And Love-Based Thinking
You’ll definitely know if the way you think is driven by fear or love. For example, if you jump into a relationship because no one in your friendship circle is single, then that’s fear. If you do things out of love, your heart will easily open up to trusting another person once more.
2. What Do You Really Want
Have you already decided on what you want out of your love life? What do you expect to happen? When you have figured this out, you will trust your heart to make the right decisions that will move you towards your goal. Because you already have a clear picture of what you want in your mind, you can easily see which path you need to take to make yourself happy.
3. Appoint A Guardian Angel
There will always be times when we’re not sure about the person we’re seeing or the emotions we’re feeling. The best thing to do is to have one of your closest friends to be your guardian angel. Think of this person as your consultant who will protect and counsel you throughout your journey.
It’s understandable for you to put up walls but put in mind that they can be one of the reasons why you remain single. Take your walls down and trust yourself to have better