The way we figured it, there are only 6 steps on how you can meet a Filipina (a woman from the Philippines). If you’ve already met one online, go through the steps so you can plan how to meet in person. Take notes gents because this may come in handy:

Step 1: Meet a Filipina Online

The reason why you need to do this is because a Filipina must have a connection with you before your meeting. Meeting a stranger she knows almost nothing about is unlikely to happen. This means that you’re going to have to correspond with her frequently. Go to popular Asian dating websites (the secure ones) or even on Facebook. There are plenty of websites online, full of open-minded Filipinas who are waiting to meet new foreign friends.

Step 2: Do Video Conferences (and lots of them)

After you’ve corresponded via chat or email for a period of time, take the next step which is video conferencing. This is not just for the both of you to have a better way of communicating, but it’s also to establish trust. Once you see her, and she sees you via webcam, it’ll confirm that both of your identities are genuine.

Step 3: Visit Or Plan to Visit

You should only proceed to Step 3 if you’re serious about your Filipina lady. After communicating for months, you can now plan to visit her in her own city. Get yourself a checklist of the things that you need to do. This should include your budget, where you’re going to stay, what you’re going to do (activities) and so on. You should plan everything yourself so you know, first hand, what your arrangements are going to be when you arrive. This is possible through researching the city that your Filipina girl is in.

Step 4: Meeting

Filipinos, in general, are big on texting. Calls…not so much so as soon as you arrive, purchase a sim card that you can use to communicate with her. Let her know that you’re here and ask her of her plans for the day or the rest of the week. Decide on where to meet. You should also do this yourself. It’s best that you choose a place that’s outside of the hotel but near it. Lunch is too casual so a dinner date is more appropriate.

Step 5: The Date(s)

Remember that the Filipina you visited may also have her own daily responsibilities to do so don’t force her to be with you 24/7, unless she expresses her desire to do so. Ask her our on dates at specific days of the week but as much as possible don’t make it into an everyday thing. This is just to show that you ‘re also considerate of her time. When on dates, you have to be the gentleman and pay for the bill. She may choose to ride a taxi after your date or she may accompany you to your hotel. A good sign that things are going well is this: she will introduce you to her family. This is a sure sign that things are getting a bit serious.

Step 6: Leaving and Communicating

The day you leave will be heart-breaking for your Filipina lady so make sure that you communicate frequently via text, chat or video conference to alleviate her longing to be with you. Once you’re done with step 6, you can repeat the process and maybe skip a few steps.

Remember that doing this process means that you’re ready to be in a serious relationship. To a Filipina, the moment you decide to visit her in her city is a big deal so make sure that your intentions are clearly defined.