Trust has always been an important issue when it came to meeting Chinese women online. Come to think of it, it’s an important issue with online dating in general. For years, people have been known to tell a fib or two when meeting people online. Well, this doesn’t work when you want to meet Chinese women online because, to them, trust is the most important aspect in a relationship (or maybe in a potential relationship).
Not being able to see each other face to face already adds to the doubt that most Chinese women have in the beginning. Telling a fib does not help. These 6, however, do:
Don’t lie about your age
Never ever lie about your age. If you’re worried that you’re too old for meeting Chinese women online, don’t be. You’d be surprised at how unimportant age is to Chinese women who want to date foreign men over the internet. Don’t get caught up in telling a little white lie with your age because it’ll be your downfall when the time comes. Just go with it and don’t focus on age too much. After all, it’s just a number, right?
Tell the truth about your intentions
First off, if you want to meet Chinese women online just for fun, you have to be very clear about that. There are women who also have the same intentions as you, but most are definitely looking for serious relationships that could potentially end up in marriage. Be honest if you do not want anything serious.
Don’t pretend to know her culture
It’s so easy to Google information that, sometimes, you can feel like you know almost everything. Google-ing also comes easy when you’re talking about impressing Chinese women online. STOP. Don’t pretend to know something about her culture just so you can show off.
Say what you mean
It’s always an advantage to say what mean what you say and say what you mean. Flattery is OK but don’t go telling Chinese women online that you’re going to do this while, in fact, you’re not feeling up to it. Do good with your promises and always be consistent in both your actions and words so you build trust.
Be honest when a miscommunication happens
If the Chinese women you’ve been chatting with aren’t very good at expressing themselves in English, miscommunication is bound to happen. When it does, acknowledge that something went wrong, apologize if you are at fault and then move on. To Chinese women online, there’s nothing worse than a man, whom they could potentially be with, playing games and not being honest.
Be truthful about your past
If a Chinese woman asks you about something your past, tell her the truth. This, however, has a condition. You can tell her the truth straight up if you’re comfortable doing so (or if you trust her enough). If not, you can simply tell the Chinese woman asking that the subject she’s asking about is sensitive and personal. She will get the point and appreciate you for your honesty.
Building trust is a must if you want to have a successful relationship with a Chinese lady. Don’t try to get away with a fib because, it’s inexplicable but, Asian women have this knack of knowing if you’re telling the truth or not.